Accredited Family Mediators · Hampshire

Family Mediation in Hampshire — Calm, Confidential & Practical

When a relationship breaks down, the decisions that follow can feel overwhelming. We help separating couples, parents and families reach workable agreements on children, finances and property — without going straight to court.

100% Confidential
1-Hour MIAM Available
Online & In-Person
Legal Aid Available

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FMC Accredited Mediators
Fully Confidential Process
Legal Aid & Voucher Scheme
Online & In-Person Sessions
Serving All Hampshire

Mediation helps you answer the hard questions

Family mediation is a private, voluntary process where an independent mediator helps you work through arrangements after separation — without taking sides or forcing outcomes.

Where will the children live and how will care be shared?
How will school terms, holidays and special occasions work?
What happens to the family home, savings and pensions?
How can future communication become calmer?
Can agreements be made legally binding?
95%
of mediation cases reach a partial or full agreement
What Is Family Mediation?

A calmer, more constructive way forward

Family mediation is not about winning or losing. It is about creating a structured space where both people can talk through the issues, understand each other’s concerns and explore realistic, child-focused solutions.

Unlike court proceedings, mediation keeps you in control of the decisions that affect your children, your home and your future. It is often faster, less stressful and significantly less costly than a contested court process.

Find Out If Mediation Is Right For You
MIAM Appointments

What is a MIAM and do you need one?

A MIAM — Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting — is your first private meeting with a mediator. In most family court cases, attending a MIAM is a legal requirement before you can make an application, unless a valid exemption applies.

Private, one-to-one meeting

You meet the mediator alone to explain your situation in your own words.

Understand your options

The mediator explains the full range of dispute resolution options available.

Safety assessment

The mediator assesses whether mediation is safe and appropriate for your circumstances.

Court form signed if needed

If you need to proceed to court, we can sign the relevant form at your MIAM.

Book Your MIAM Today

Confidential · Non-binding · Approx. 1 hour
A MIAM typically lasts around one hour and is held privately — just you and the mediator.
In most family court cases, a MIAM is required by law before you can apply to court.
Online MIAM appointments are available across England and Wales.
Legal aid may cover your MIAM costs if you meet the financial eligibility criteria.
Our Services

Family Mediation Services Across Hampshire

Whatever your family’s situation, we have a service to help. All sessions are confidential, impartial and led by qualified mediators.

Child Arrangement Mediation

Help parents agree on where children live, contact schedules, school holidays, handovers and long-term parenting plans. Always focused on children’s welfare and emotional wellbeing.

Explore Child Arrangement Mediation

Divorce & Separation Mediation

A calm, structured space to discuss what needs to happen next — covering children, living arrangements, financial responsibilities and future communication planning.

Explore Divorce & Separation Mediation

Financial & Property Mediation

Structured discussions on the family home, savings, debts, pensions, income and future responsibilities — with written proposals that can be converted into a consent order.

View Financial & Property Mediation Services

Online Family Mediation

Attend MIAM appointments and mediation sessions from home. Available across England and Wales — ideal if you live apart, work long hours or prefer not to travel.

Discover Online Family Mediation

Shuttle Mediation

Where direct communication is difficult, each person speaks with the mediator separately. Safe, structured and suitable where emotions are high or direct discussion is not appropriate.

Learn About Shuttle Mediation Support

Legal Aid & Voucher Scheme

Legal aid may cover your costs if you meet eligibility criteria. The Family Mediation Voucher Scheme may also contribute up to £500 towards session costs in eligible child-related cases.

View Legal Aid & Voucher Scheme Information
How It Works

Family Mediation — Step by Step

1

Contact Us

Call or complete our confidential contact form with your details and a brief description of the issue.

2

Attend Your MIAM

Your private first meeting. Explain your situation and find out if mediation is right for you.

3

Other Person Invited

If suitable, the other person attends their own separate MIAM before any joint session.

4

Mediation Sessions

Joint sessions — in person, online or shuttle — to work through the issues together.

5

Written Outcome

Proposals written up clearly. Take legal advice or apply for a binding consent order.

Mediation vs Court

Why Choose Mediation Over Going to Court?

Understanding the real differences between family mediation and court proceedings — so you can make the right choice for your family.

Family Mediation

Private · Flexible · Child-focused

  • ✓You and your family stay in control of decisions
  • ✓Private — discussions cannot be used in court
  • ✓Significantly less costly than contested court
  • ✓Typically resolved in weeks, not months or years
  • ✓Agreements you helped shape — more likely to last
  • ✓Keeps children out of the middle of conflict
  • ✓Flexible — online or in-person appointments
  • ✓Legal aid and voucher support available

Court Proceedings

Formal · Adversarial · Judge-led

  • ×A judge makes the final decision — not you
  • ×Public record — court hearings are rarely private
  • ×Often significantly more expensive in legal fees
  • ×Can take 12–24 months or longer to resolve
  • ×Win/lose outcomes can increase long-term conflict
  • ×Children may be drawn into proceedings indirectly
  • ×Strict court timetables with little flexibility
  • ×May require attendance at multiple hearings
95%
of mediation cases reach a partial or full agreement
~70%
less costly than contested court proceedings on average
Weeks
not months — typical time to resolution through mediation
1 Hour
MIAM appointment is all it takes to get started
Why Hants Family Mediation?

The right mediator makes all the difference

Families across Hampshire trust us because we keep discussions calm, balanced and focused on real outcomes — not process for its own sake.

Start with a Confidential Conversation

Fully Confidential

Everything discussed in mediation is private and cannot be used in court.

Impartial & Fair

Our mediators are neutral — we never take sides or push a particular outcome.

Child-Focused

Children’s welfare, routine and emotional wellbeing are always at the centre of our work.

FMC Accredited

Our mediators are accredited by the Family Mediation Council — the professional regulator.

Flexible Options

In-person, online or shuttle mediation — we work around your circumstances.

Cost-Conscious

Legal aid guidance and voucher scheme support available to reduce your costs.

Where We Work

Serving Families Across Hampshire

We provide family mediation appointments in person and online to families across Hampshire and surrounding areas.

Southampton Portsmouth Winchester Basingstoke Andover Fareham Eastleigh Havant Gosport Aldershot Farnborough Waterlooville Isle of Wight

Online mediation available for clients anywhere across England and Wales — from the comfort of your own home.

Hampshire, UK
Family Mediation Service Area
Common Questions

Frequently Asked Questions About Family Mediation in Hampshire

Get in Touch

Confidential Conversation — Start Here

You do not need to have everything worked out before getting in touch. Whether you have questions, need to book a MIAM or simply want to understand your options — we are here to help.

Call us: 03300 100 015
All enquiries are 100% confidential
Online appointments available across England & Wales

Ready to Take the First Step?

You do not need to have all the answers before reaching out. A MIAM appointment or a confidential call back is all it takes to understand your options.